We keep seeing the advancements, variations and innovations in the modern-day sex toy industry – the massager and vibrator with all the bells and whistles, and that too at competitive prices.

But being a guy (or even a girl), you might have had moments where you’ve wondered what a vibrator really feels like? What are those sensations and vibrations that women love, regardless of them being single or in a relationship? 

Here, I will tell you what it really feels like from my own experiences. So let’s get on with it..

Do You Feel Different? That’s Absolutely Normal

One of the most important things for you to know is that regardless of my own experiences, or anyone else’s for that matter, the way you feel from a specific sexual activity might not be the same as what another person feels. This is a universal rule that applies to both genders.

And same applies to sex toys as well. Whether you just bought one of those powerful sex toys to blow your mind away, or you love riding a sybian saddle – the way you feel those sensations might be somewhat different to what you’ve read about that specific toy over the internet (or even in this article!).

Here, I have just shared my own vibrator experiences. If you feel different, that’s perfectly all right. No need to freak out.

The Pulsating Sensations

Over the years, I’ve noticed that people talk more about the vibrations and the speed or the patterns, and less about the actual sensations that help a woman’s body to build up for an amazing orgasm. Yes, a vibrator’s speed, the texture and the pattern plays a vital role, however, never underestimate the pulsating sensations that a vibrator can give.

Ever since I have been using this amazing sex toy, I look forward for these sensations that feel like blood running down in your veins from head to toe, or those random tingling sensations that occur in our bodies in side of the head, or other parts of the body. Depending on what type of vibrator you’re using and the way you’re using it, these sensations will drive you crazy as you move your vibrator in different directions, patterns and force.

The Element of Un comfort

Are you a young girl or someone new to sex toys? Well, we all were at some point, weren’t we? And yes, initially a vibrator can give you a feeling of discomfort or uneasiness, especially if you’re rushing towards it or if your body is not as relaxed as it should be.

Start with Light Vibrators

When I first started out in my early days, I made the mistake of using a big, heavy vibrator (can’t remember the brand name), that had real, strong vibrations. I got carried away with the overly strong vibrations and I decided to not use it for the next many days and instead went ahead with using small-sized dildos to explore my sexual fantasies.

Thanks to my best mate in school those days who helped me out with this. She and I went out shopping one day and she suggested a cute little vibrator with a relatively smaller vibrator head. And I still remember she specifically mentioned, “Keep the vibration speed at its minimum for the first couple of weeks.”

It worked out really well and since then, my day isn’t spent well unless I have gotten off using my vibrator! 🙂

Always Use Lube

If your body is not relaxed, if you’ve had a long, hectic day at work or if you are not too much into the rhythm, then your vagina will not be as naturally lubed as you might want it to be. 

Using a lube can make things easy and smooth down there, especially when you’re having long, intense sessions with your toy.

Difference Between Going Solo VS Partner Sex

My experience with a vibrator is always world’s apart when it comes to doing it solo VS doing it with a partner. Neither is better or superior than the other – both have their own sensations and pleasures that will make you go crazy if you’re fully into it.

While I’m alone and using a vibrator for self-pleasure, all the control lies with me and I am the one in command of the vibrations, patterns, timing, speed, etc. Usually, I fantasize thinking about my first crush from my high school days, or at times a nice porn video helps, too.

In contrast, using a vibrator with a partner adds a lot more fun to the overall sexual foreplay that you can have with your lover. When I used to do it with my ex, the part that I loved the most about a vibrator was that we could use it on each other for pleasure, and not just myself. 

However, when another person is moving the toy in all directions against my clit and vagina, and even against my nipples, that is an ‘out of the world’ sort of feeling. I usually loved to be blindfolded during most of the sex foreplay, and both my ex’s knew me well enough to make sure I can’t see what they’re upto. Doing this would just spice up the whole session for me as I would keep getting surprises down there.

Type of Vibrator

It also depends on what specific type of vibrator makes you go off. Whether you like the clitoral sensations using a clit vibrator or the famous magic wand that comes with a large head that effectively covers your entire clit and vagina at once.

My go-to vibrators are usually the Le Wand that delivers absolutely perfect orgasms, or the Nora rabbit vibrator that reaches my G-spot like no other toy does! But let me also add the fact that being a girl in my early 30s, it was a whole journey for me to understand my body, the sensitive spots and the way I would want to orgasm. 

Our Final Thoughts

As far as the type of the vibrator is concerned, it is important to focus on the journey itself, rather than rushing on various types of vibrators just because someone else felt about it in a certain way. Also, don’t fall into the marketing techniques the brands use these days, what you feel might not exactly be what you saw on one of those commercials.

Moreover, exploring your own body is of prime importance. No sex toy can do wonders unless you completely know about your own sensitive areas and pleasurable spots. Also, partner sex can also get way better if you have good communication with your partner and he or she knows those spots. 

In the end, get a vibrator, be creative with it and do what makes you feel good, and what makes you go off in the craziest of ways.. Period!

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